"In this sticky web that we're all in, behaving decently is no small task." -- Novelist Stacey D'Erasmo

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Remember Him?

     Author William Manchester called him "the most hated man of World War II." Not because he sided with the Nazis or the Japanese, but because he had been classified 4-F. Instead of serving in the army, the young man from New Jersey stayed home in America, made piles of money and enjoyed being photographed with lots of beautiful women.

     He was a man of many contradictions. He'd become a big star and was notorious for a kind of in-your-face arrogance and self-confidence. Yet even though the official reason he'd been classified 4-F was because of a perforated eardrum, in fact he was described as neurotic and judged "not acceptable material from a psychiatric standpoint."

     He rose to success before World War II. His group, The Hoboken Four, won first prize on the "Major Bowes Amateur Hour" radio show in 1935, then the young heartthrob went on to sing for Harry James and Tommy Dorsey. By 1941, he was voted top male singer in the country.

     After World War II his career suffered. He appeared in a couple of movies. He briefly had a radio show, and made a failed run at a TV show. In 1951, the story goes, he was walking through Times Square in New York and saw the name of his rival, Eddie Fisher, up in lights. A crowd of teenage girls was swarming the theater. He got so depressed he went home, shut the door to his kitchen, turned on the gas and lay his head on top of the stove. A friend found him later, lying on the kitchen floor, crying and sobbing that he was such a failure he couldn't even commit suicide.

     But he picked himself up, dusted himself off, and soon found his way to Las Vegas, appearing at the Desert Inn. Then he was signed to play Pvt. Angelo Maggio in From Here to Eternity, the 1953 movie based on James Jones's bestselling novel chronicling the lives and loves of soldiers in Hawaii just before the attack on Pearl Harbor.

     He won the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor (the movie won eight Oscars in all, including Best Picture), and with that his career was back on track. In the late 1950s, as he was entering his 40s, he developed a more mature sound that included saloon songs, blues-tinged ballads and jazzier tunes. He was voted top male vocalist, and his albums led the charts with In the Wee Small Hours in 1955, Songs for Swingin' Lovers in 1956 and Come Fly with Me in 1958.

     It was during this period when Frank Sinatra -- for surely by now (this is an easy one!) you've guessed he's Frank Sinatra, aka Old Blue Eyes, aka The Chairman of the Board -- divorced his first wife Nancy (with whom he had his three children, Nancy, Frank, Fr., and Tina). He married film star Ava Gardner in 1951, and divorced her in 1957. He married and divorced Mia Farrow in the 1960s, then in 1976 married Barbara Marx and stayed with her until his death at age 82 in 1998.

     Sinatra led a storied life in the movies, the music business, in Vegas, even in politics. He was nominated for the Best Actor Oscar in 1955 for his starring role in Man with the Golden Arm. He won critical acclaim for the Manchurian Candidate (1962). He also starred in the original Ocean's Eleven (1960) with buddies Dean Martin, Sammy Davis, Jr., Peter Lawford and Joey Bishop -- a group of top Hollywood talent that came to be known as the Rat Pack.

     Even as the Beatles and Rolling Stones brought a whole new culture to the world of music, Sinatra won the Grammy for Album of the Year in both 1966, for September of My Years, which included his hit single "It Was a Very Good Year," and in 1967 for his anthology album A Man and His Music. Meantime, he was churning out hit singles including "Strangers in the Night" in 1966, "That's Life" in 1967 and "My Way" in 1969.

     In his younger years Sinatra was an ardent Democrat, helping Franklin Roosevelt raise money and register voters in the 1940s. He also had a connection to the Kennedy family through Peter Lawford (married to John Kennedy's sister Patricia), and he joined the Kennedy campaign in 1960. He sang the National Anthem at the Democratic convention in both 1956 and 1960, and helped organize Kennedy's inaugural ball in January 1961. He was also at the time reputed to be associated with the Mafia ("If you sing in joints, you're gonna know the guys that run them," Sinatra said), and was allegedly a liaison between the Kennedy campaign and the Giancana family in an effort to "get out the vote."

     Sinatra turned more conservative in his later years. He endorsed Ronald Reagan in 1970 for his second term as governor of California, he supported Richard Nixon in 1972, and backed Ronald Reagan for president in 1980. Sinatra went on to arrange Reagan's presidential gala in 1981 -- just as he had done for John F. Kennedy 20 years earlier.

    As for me, I must admit I was never particularly a Sinatra fan (like, you know, some people are crazy about him.) It's just that, in 1965 when I was in high school, and Frank Sinatra was turning 50, he seemed so old. Nevertheless, I always appreciated his talent and his technique and his longevity. He made over 1,400 recordings over his 50-year career. And I did like a few of his songs. Especially this one:

9 comments:

Snowbrush said...

I just ordered music by Robert Goulet, Perry Como, Andy Williams, Dean Martin, and Frank Chacksfield, but not a thing by Sinatra. I like nothing about the man, but I appear to be in the minority.

stephen Hayes said...

Not much of a fan. I read somewhere that Sinatra's people paid women in the forties to swoon.

sell my house said...

Actually he is the most hated man of World War II.but sinatra's lifestyle was not so bad.photography , music.......wow !!!sell my house

Janette said...

I enjoy Sinatra. Mac the Knife was one of my favorites. Didn't know his early story- or politics. I listened to every one of his albums on our stereo while my dad sat in the living room tapping his shoe and reading the paper after work. My parents and grandparents went to Vegas to listen to him about once a year.
I will always appreciate that his singing gave my father the chance to dance- and I got to stand on his shoes when he did it.
Thanks for the memories.

schmidleysscribblins,wordpress.com said...

One more song of self-pity. I was too young to know who he was, or too old when he returned to the scene. I felt sorry for his wife Mia Farrow. I liked her, didn't like him. Dianne

Kay Dennison said...

My Daddy used to sing Sinatra songs to me which is prolly why I like them.

I try not to concern myself with movie star's or actors' lives. I have enough drama in my own life.

Bob Lowry said...

I'm too young to know about Sinatra's WWII image and I found his lifestyle not worth emulating. But, that didn't effect his talent.

Personally I like his music and don't think about his private life when I hear Come Fly With Me.

Douglas said...

Sinatra's story (nice job, by the way) just shows how complex people are and how stars(especially "superstars")have myths and legends grow up around them. I was raised in a house where my father disliked Rock & Roll and had a large collection of Swing Era music. Of course, I ignored that and listened to Rock & Roll. I didn't much like Sinatra's singing until my late teens but I had seen most of his movies and liked them. Still do. But now I appreciate his voice and style... as well as the entire Swing Era.

Dick Klade said...

Right you are, Old Blue Eyes was an easy guess. I disliked his early work, but thought he became an outstanding showman in his latter years. Most of his voice was gone by then, but he could really sell a song.