tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post5254481159145991240..comments2024-03-28T12:20:33.105-04:00Comments on Sightings Over Sixty: What Do They Do Now?Tomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08611148987085476580noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-83950831086451896072021-10-13T10:26:12.081-04:002021-10-13T10:26:12.081-04:00This is exactly where my husband and I are sitting...This is exactly where my husband and I are sitting. Do we try to sell our place while the housing prices are high? What if it sells? It's a terrifying thought. Downsizing is an extremely daunting task. What is stopping us is the "what next". How small are we thinking? Where? We'd be paying a top price for a place because of the housing prices. Rent? That means moving TWICE in a short period of time. We never wanted to leave the place we have but it's a tri-level and I'm looking at knee and back surgeries in the next few years. Not sure HOW you plan for those things. <br /><br />Thank you for mentioning your friends. I'm enjoying other's comments too. Perhaps we'll come to some conclusion soon and it will end up on my blog! :)Julie Garmanhttps://www.retiredgeekwoman.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-9278731706058610572021-10-04T02:14:14.647-04:002021-10-04T02:14:14.647-04:00Hello everyone on here my name is Fumo Sadiku livi... Hello everyone on here my name is Fumo Sadiku living in Malindi City Kenyan I want to tell a little more about a good hearted man called Mr Pedro working with funding service as loan officer, Mr Pedro helped me get a loan of 37,115,225.00 Shillings on my trying time trying to get back on my feet to raise my business I know there are some of you here who are in financial difficulties to talk to Mr Pedro pedroloanss@gmail.com I'm so glad for what he did for me and for his Bank accountant as well Accountant Hernandez Lucas Thank you very much for your work well done. Fumo Sadikuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12348857782425553333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-23313626745372984042021-10-02T21:07:12.331-04:002021-10-02T21:07:12.331-04:00They're brave. Maybe they thought everything o...They're brave. Maybe they thought everything out - or maybe they're in for some big surprises!Linda Myershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05706455533282204519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-14783542593603800302021-10-02T09:15:12.523-04:002021-10-02T09:15:12.523-04:00That is a gutsy move! Store everything except enou...That is a gutsy move! Store everything except enough for a starter apartment. Rent. Move around. Take everything out in a year-sort- and move forward. They are not tied to any specific place…great. No commitments, just start getting to know each other again. You only have one life! <br />We got rid of most of our furniture and most of the “I think my kids will like this” stuff. I wish we had just done an estate sale like we did with mil house(that we sold in two weeks!).I just watched a podcast on the difficult task of spending and getting rid of what you spent your life accumulating. Tough to wrap our minds around. Janettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10054888725603183006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-49313564443408287092021-10-01T20:27:46.184-04:002021-10-01T20:27:46.184-04:00We rented for a year while we explored our new are...We rented for a year while we explored our new area. During this time we adjusted to a smaller space and this helped us to let go of excess stuff. Worked out well for us.marylandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04934592707133857809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-85243849874927306452021-09-28T22:11:30.541-04:002021-09-28T22:11:30.541-04:00Ohmyword, I get tired just thinking about what the...Ohmyword, I get tired just thinking about what they'll have to accomplish in the next month! Yikes!Diane Stringam Tolleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09629946536985545457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-29807270834619473512021-09-28T19:53:53.464-04:002021-09-28T19:53:53.464-04:00Almost eight years ago we purchased, sold and move...Almost eight years ago we purchased, sold and moved from the BayArea in California to Portland, Oregon to be closer to our daughters and the Grandkids. All this was done in less than two months and we had lived in our home for over 35 years! We were both working full time and we had friends help us pack up and we moved ourselves. Our 3 adult kids had already left home and we purged and donated many items before we packed up. In our case, we found a home to purchase first. Then we had to prepare our home to get it on the market. Things worked out well and we made the transition to our new home. Many changes along the way and it can be done. You just take the time to figure things out. My wife retired after we moved and I worked just part time for a year and then it was time to make the leap. I was 64 when we moved. Not that age has anything to do with it. It's having a good attitude and looking ahead for a change. We would have missed so much seeing the kids and grands if we had aged in place. Everyone of us has a story if we move or if we stay. Do what's best for you and enjoy the journey as they say. Rock'n Russhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07373954944212308684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-51877186584752825132021-09-28T16:43:29.965-04:002021-09-28T16:43:29.965-04:00 Consider this: Our neighbors just sold their hous... Consider this: Our neighbors just sold their house for full asking price in two days. Two - 70+ year olds were going to put all their belongings in a U-Haul and move them selves to Savannah, North Carolina. Cost $5000. Becoming overwhelmed with packing, help, loading, logistics they contacted moving companies for bids. They ended up settling for a $17,000. Full move. Add on storage fees, etc and costs can easily reach $25k. Few consider this part of the experience. Brian Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00818474524227020744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-90556253835238517322021-09-28T11:48:55.904-04:002021-09-28T11:48:55.904-04:00I guess they didn't do much planning for the f...I guess they didn't do much planning for the future, and just jumped in without much thought. Fingers crossed that it all turns out well in the end.gigi-hawaiihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12518815613680634578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-86080870622977745802021-09-27T15:48:44.641-04:002021-09-27T15:48:44.641-04:00Wow! They warn you about doing exactly what they&#...Wow! They warn you about doing exactly what they're doing. They say to absolutely try staying at a place first before moving permanently there. Gee... I thought it was only Hawaii and California that had the crazy sky high prices. If you were to downsize here in Hawaii, the median price for a condo is close to $500,000 right now. It's nuts!Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07461569436322815787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-26102406962526505482021-09-27T13:07:11.524-04:002021-09-27T13:07:11.524-04:00I've had to move on a dime so where there is a...I've had to move on a dime so where there is a will, there is a way. They just sound a little more impulsive than some. Sounds like an exciting venture and I hope they find a place they love.Rebecca Olkowskihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17136102257837831028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-51193833883493643632021-09-27T10:48:13.831-04:002021-09-27T10:48:13.831-04:00Mine was a massive downsizing so I planned my move...Mine was a massive downsizing so I planned my move to my 1 bedroom senior independent living building in the city for a couple of years. My health was not great and was going to get worse and I had lost my beloved canine companion.<br /><br />I can't imagine what your friends have to undergo, and I am so happy you didn't tell them, we have to learn these lessons for ourselves, don't we? Careful storage with a list might be a solution and an arranged meeting with the family to choose their belongings or heirlooms.<br /><br />But it does sound like a nightmare.<br /><br />XO<br />WWWWisewebwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15281689872840844191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-2429951836669771452021-09-27T09:28:17.910-04:002021-09-27T09:28:17.910-04:00As someone who likes to plan and go slow, I'll...As someone who likes to plan and go slow, I'll need lots of time to get out of our home of almost 20 years. Having a month would give me hives, but I wish them well. I know people who have gone through it and survived!Laurie Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09065425057896134350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-13375322128089687962021-09-27T04:12:53.369-04:002021-09-27T04:12:53.369-04:00Hi Tom, I just wrote a post on my blog about how s...Hi Tom, I just wrote a post on my blog about how some of the major decisions we made were not always done in what might be described as the most logical way, but they seem to have worked well for us.<br />I note a few comments about them needing to downsize, as if this is a bad thing. We've downsized significantly over the past 6 years, and I couldn't be happier about it. I think Amy and her husband will do just fine, they've taken an action to commit, possibly without that they would have just maintained the status quo, now they're certain to do some new...how exciting!David @iretiredyounghttps://www.iretiredyoung.net/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-58371527483453496012021-09-26T13:13:00.998-04:002021-09-26T13:13:00.998-04:00I am a big planner so this would make me so nervou...I am a big planner so this would make me so nervous!Carol Cassarahttp://carolcassara.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-3715498939940233002021-09-25T22:11:44.350-04:002021-09-25T22:11:44.350-04:00After our decision to move to a smaller city we sp...After our decision to move to a smaller city we spent 4 months de-cluttering and preparing our house for sale. We bought another house before selling ours. The market where we lived was hot and our house sold in two weeks for well over the asking price. Things worked out for us but the whole process took six months. Even with a six-month timeframe, the decisions were not without stress. I hope your friends find a new place to live!<br /> Jeanette Lewishttp://www.postworksavvy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-73391784849164973352021-09-25T20:34:43.427-04:002021-09-25T20:34:43.427-04:00Here's the thing. We did some major declutteri...Here's the thing. We did some major decluttering before we moved. We got rid of all the kids' stuff and half our furniture. We moved into a smaller house, but not that much smaller. Yet now, a couple of years later, we STILL have too much stuff!Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08611148987085476580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-78240737024128760382021-09-25T17:53:04.682-04:002021-09-25T17:53:04.682-04:00I feel for them; you are right that they face some...I feel for them; you are right that they face some serious downsizing! I've been hearing that moving costs are also way up right now, so it's a costly option to just box and move everything without significant downsizing. I've been going through possessions for too long and I'm not nearly ready to move yet, but I've been making steady progress. I think the way you and B did it is just about right, and it's how I'm planning to proceed when I'm ready.<br />NinaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-1718479427903019572021-09-25T13:57:25.372-04:002021-09-25T13:57:25.372-04:00A similar thing happened to my sister. They had l...A similar thing happened to my sister. They had listed their house a couple of times and it never sold. The third time they listed it, it sold right away and they had no plans in place. Luckily, my mother had an extra bedroom so they put everything in storage and stayed with her. I think the way you did it with the rent condo was probably the best way to be sure you found the best landing spot. Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16894294588507668479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-15906704848330182062021-09-25T13:45:21.765-04:002021-09-25T13:45:21.765-04:00Don't envy them right now. As you said, they g...Don't envy them right now. As you said, they got a great price for their home but they will pay a great price for any other home they want to buy. <br />I was lucky when I sold that only Florida was in a housing boom but I had to leave the state so as not just make a lateral move. <br />Hope they do find a place to rent while searching options.Arkansas Pattihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14156004753267665579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-83573021882058079612021-09-25T10:17:17.277-04:002021-09-25T10:17:17.277-04:00Hi Tom,
Thanks for your blog. Long-time reader, n...Hi Tom, <br />Thanks for your blog. Long-time reader, newbie commenter. I just turned 60 and am continuing to build my perspectives-on-life portfolio. I understand what you're saying; the Ready-Fire-Aim approach to life is probably not the most sustainable and maybe not the wisest way to create change. On the other hand, I have, on a few occasions, jumped before I looked. It sure did create an adventure and worked out well. It also made for some sleepless nights. Maybe sometimes change is more important than specific result. There's also a difference between absolute silliness and advantaged risk. Lots of work (and fun) ahead of them, that's for sure. Kind of fun to see where they end up. MiddleAgeMarkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595324283439008775noreply@blogger.com