tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post1001148738624829768..comments2024-03-18T04:17:30.115-04:00Comments on Sightings Over Sixty: Where Do You Move When You Retire?Tomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08611148987085476580noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-26468177122085783252017-04-27T10:42:14.346-04:002017-04-27T10:42:14.346-04:00Where does a 59ye old retire when she has a rare g...Where does a 59ye old retire when she has a rare generic cancer causing illness. I have an ileostomy, need hydration via port during the week 5 hours each infusion with medication, surveillance is required. Hubby has multiple sclerosis and recently had to live in a nursing home. I ha e one son who wants only to speak to me for a final goodbye, you know. My daughter is my life however married, my ing with me until she competed her PhD. Check. Then she received a job offer 4 yr university $$$$$$ her husband s prof. Too not with a PhD at a two yr. University. I feel I'm in their way and I don't think I'm needed any longer. No grandkids planned as they would inherit this awful illness. I didn't know I had either. So where does one move with a spousal refusal on place, medical care for FAP AND ILEOSTOMY, HYDRATION ISSUES, WATER GOOD WATER IS MY LIFE, BIG CITY HOSPITALS WHO DON'T NEED TO GOOGLE MY ILLNESS. I feel hopeless married to a 5 yr old in a nursing home. Who btw I took care of at home fulltime for 25 yrs. We married in 1981. Kids are 29 n 33. I want a happier future than the life I have lived. Anyone can feel free to work on this one. I agreed to sell the house and give the kids a large portion of the home $$$$%. I need help.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-61746924913572593192014-09-24T21:25:03.845-04:002014-09-24T21:25:03.845-04:00Sedona Az is really a beautiful destination for a ...Sedona Az is really a beautiful destination for a check out however it is a fair far better destination for a dwell. For more data in a very general sense click here <a href="http://sedonaazrealestatehomes.com" rel="nofollow">Sedona AZ real estate</a>rockppihttp://sedonaazrealestatehomes.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-58997031475988281992012-01-23T18:19:29.755-05:002012-01-23T18:19:29.755-05:00My husband and I are in this conversation now -- a...My husband and I are in this conversation now -- about fixing up the house. For us? For how long? And if we don't stay in this house do we just move closer in to the city to be more convenient to services and friends? thanks!helena gracehttp://gambolinggrace.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-15124621558430060002011-10-21T19:24:37.553-04:002011-10-21T19:24:37.553-04:00SW Washington State for us. We've already mov...SW Washington State for us. We've already moved here while we're working. No state income tax, low property taxes (just $1,600 a year for a 900 sq foot home on 4 acres).<br /><br />1 hour from Portland, Oregon where our families are. 2 hours from Seattle. Close to the mountains for skiing, close to the beach, lots of boating, fishing, outdoor recreation. Temperate climate.<br /><br />Yes we get rain, but head to the central part of the state and it's sunny. Plenty of opportunities for that with long weekends.<br /><br />I don't know why I'm telling anyone this - I like that we're not crowded out here and I want it to stay that way. In fact, don't come here, it's awful! :o)Debnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-54821145658485953132011-10-18T18:46:31.030-04:002011-10-18T18:46:31.030-04:00I think Virginia sounds lovely. I have always wan...I think Virginia sounds lovely. I have always wanted to visit there. I would have to be in a place where there are four distinct seasons.<br /><br />When I retire, I probably will stay right where I am because I am so broke, broke, broke. Besides, Vancouver is consistently listed as the number one city in the world in which to live, so I guess I couldn't do too badly by staying here.<br /><br />I think you will love Arizona, by the way. :-)Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03382221688268676914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-66732369659015418712011-10-18T15:30:07.145-04:002011-10-18T15:30:07.145-04:00Aging tends to affect the immune response to vario...Aging tends to affect the immune response to various infections, including molds/fungus. Before deciding on the next place to move you may want to research the area's risk level re: these concerns. There are plenty of infectious disease (ID) resources on-line to assist in a ID risk comparison geographically.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-52758948696522142522011-10-18T10:44:00.327-04:002011-10-18T10:44:00.327-04:00I got that AARP thing ( a reluctant member am I, h...I got that AARP thing ( a reluctant member am I, hoping to take advantage of discounts) but, like all of those "best places to..." lists, the demographic they use is not one that describes me. I happen to like Florida but you are correct that it is too crowded; all the best places are. And it gets way too hot in the summer (yet I still play golf 3 or 4 days a week during that time...). I grew up down here (near Miami when it wasn't crowded) and without AC so I can handle it (I tell myself). If I had my druthers and unlimited funds, I would live in the San Diego area as close to the ocean as possible. But we work with what we have, don't we?<br /><br />Choosing where you will live in retirement is tough, it's hard to leave places you've spent most of your life in.Douglashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09752593286034877538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-51260355568797235562011-10-17T21:17:43.699-04:002011-10-17T21:17:43.699-04:00I retired just over a year ago and we are spending...I retired just over a year ago and we are spending some time looking for our "place to be". We are in north Georgia (Atlanta exurbs) but our only son lives in Boston area. We spent 5 months near there last fall trying it out and liked it but not the housing costs. Never have figured out the reason for that. So for now, we are keeping our house in Georgia as a home base as we read and travel to possible places. We just visited Winchester, VA, and it is very nice. However, it seemed like a place for the younger crowd to me. We actually WANT to be near other retirees. Been reading about Lewisburg, PA, lately. About 6 hours drive from Boston and it is a college town. Anyone know more about it?Donnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-35646947186446480822011-10-17T15:48:30.730-04:002011-10-17T15:48:30.730-04:00Going back and forth between Vermont and Florida--...Going back and forth between Vermont and Florida--I'm old where ever I go. We at one time thought we would move to FL, but are happier right now with both places. When we get too decrepit to travel back and forth, we will settle in FloridaOlgahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00692441479616299920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-6372326165582717312011-10-17T15:14:56.182-04:002011-10-17T15:14:56.182-04:00Dick is correct, be flexible.
I am familiar with ...Dick is correct, be flexible.<br /><br />I am familiar with Winchester VA. Very pretty Southern city with a restored center and near the mountains. They have some retirement villages over there too. Winchester is about an hour from me, and we have thought about moving there but my daughter is south of us, not west of us, and I want to be near her.<br /><br />Harrisonburg PA is between Philly and DC and on the main n-s thorofare. <br /><br />Been to Ithaca many times and love the place, but it is $$$.<br /><br />Florida? Forget it. Hot-hot-hot in summer.<br /><br />Portland is swell but too far from my kids, except the one in San Diego CA.<br /><br />Median not the best way to measure age. Yes it is midpoint, but the distribution matters too. Proportion 65 is better. PA is very old, as are AZ and FL. PA has continued outmigration from most of the state. Eastern PA is much younger. AZ is mostly in-migrants 65+ as is FL. Both have a fairly steady population as death rates are high. Makes for an area with a shortage of medical workers. Something to think about. ME? Forget it. My pal Kathleen just returned to VA. She could not take the cold winters.schmidleysscribblins,wordpress.comhttp://schmidleysscribblins.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-32584653841779108882011-10-17T11:57:00.243-04:002011-10-17T11:57:00.243-04:00We moved from Lancaster to the Jersey shore a year...We moved from Lancaster to the Jersey shore a year ago because we wanted a change. We are still employed. If we find upon retirement we cannot afford the Shore - taxes are out of sight - we might move back. Hub hates Florida and the West is too far from family. And a bonus to the shore is that our kids love to visit. I have a feeling the longer we stay the harder it is going to be to get us out of here!Meryl Baerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13482532818278685217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-74421841872844524892011-10-17T11:39:20.947-04:002011-10-17T11:39:20.947-04:00Can you get a room on James St?Can you get a room on James St?Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09656773730604906253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-35608607696338359112011-10-17T11:05:54.751-04:002011-10-17T11:05:54.751-04:00My advice--don't get locked into a decision to...My advice--don't get locked into a decision too soon. Relevant financial matters are changing, and mighty quickly.<br /><br />Two months ago, Michigan had no state income taxes on retiree annuities and liberal deductions for real estate taxes. A new governor and legislature pretty much abolished both benefits for all except very low income retirees and a few elders who were grandfathered for parts of the tax breaks.<br /><br />In a wink, this state changed from one that welcomes retirees to one that encourages them to move away.<br /><br />The same sort of thing has happened elsewhere. Be flexible in your planning. A sudden tax hit that is likely to be permanent can be a big factor in negating the pleasures of retirement.Dick Kladehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11793395712483278104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-50707940929131862712011-10-17T10:34:08.600-04:002011-10-17T10:34:08.600-04:00We left Southern California and retired to a very ...We left Southern California and retired to a very small town near Savannah, GA 8 years ago. My husband is retired military so we knew we wanted to be near a military base, there are 2 here, and our daughter is in Maryland, we get to see her a lot oftener. Still happy with our choice, taxwise Georgia is good to retirees.Mac n' Janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05732924562630675589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-83821557454874064542011-10-17T09:08:13.885-04:002011-10-17T09:08:13.885-04:00Oh and PS. I looked at that list. Who wrote that I...Oh and PS. I looked at that list. Who wrote that I wonder? None of those places appeals to me at all. Except as I say Portland Maine.<br /><br />Seriously, Cheyenne Wyoming? Are they kidding?Roberta Warshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09869094383053871169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-45098983085768562732011-10-17T09:04:32.774-04:002011-10-17T09:04:32.774-04:00We once thought seriously about Portland, Maine. W...We once thought seriously about Portland, Maine. We love that town. But then we thought about winter and ruled it out rather quickly. Some friends of ours spend the winter in Tucson. We went out to visit them and that was pretty much that. We will spend the winters out there when my husband retires. We will only rent though and keep our Boston condo as our main home since family is here. They can live without us for a few months in winter though.Roberta Warshawhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09869094383053871169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-25449799538875042852011-10-17T08:16:23.044-04:002011-10-17T08:16:23.044-04:00Nana, it's funny how that works, isn't it?...Nana, it's funny how that works, isn't it? While I'm "way too young" for AARP, B is also a member and has been for a few years. And she's four years younger than I am! Go figure.Tomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08611148987085476580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-32356504724067850412011-10-17T06:47:55.065-04:002011-10-17T06:47:55.065-04:00For a few years I thought I had the Retirement Pla...For a few years I thought I had the Retirement Place nailed in Tennessee.<br />Four seasons, with a short winter, hills, cheap. Husband's interest seems to be waning, however, and I'm not sure he'll ever retire anyway. <br />I'm not sure I have another move left in me. We might stay right here. Not in Ithaca, but in a place with a very similar climate. The six-month-long winter wouldn't be so bad if I didn't have to slog out into it every single morning to go to work. Days on end of books! Ahhh.Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11710135137635433217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-8759001899076677082011-10-17T00:26:15.586-04:002011-10-17T00:26:15.586-04:00I also am too young for AARP...my spouse is a memb...I also am too young for AARP...my spouse is a member! <br />the publications are good and targeted to this specific population so the info is relevant. Plus, there are AARP discounts at hotels.<br /><br />We considered moving, but the spouse is happy in eastern Oregon where he can hunt and fish. Although our winters are cold, we don't get much snow and we manage to take a tropical vacation during the very cold months.#1Nanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04214011945298439939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-75135602802818103192011-10-17T00:00:27.163-04:002011-10-17T00:00:27.163-04:00I retired from the eastern end of Suffolk County, ...I retired from the eastern end of Suffolk County, Long Island, NY (and I know you know where that is) to the Hudson Valley in upstate New York.<br /><br />I went from spending $5600 a month to support my lifestyle on Long Island to $1200 a month.<br /><br />I'm closer to the city than the Jitney and Metro North is way cheaper. Every day I wake up here, I thank God, I'm no longer there. If you know what I mean.<br /><br />Good luck.<br /><br />PS: We tried the Florida route but after 3 months hubby and I ran back to the comfort of the Catskills.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-626594980028435818.post-53767833183053079312011-10-16T21:42:12.950-04:002011-10-16T21:42:12.950-04:00Tom, you might consider looking at Prescott and Fl...Tom, you might consider looking at Prescott and Flagstaff when you're in Arizona. Sedona is very pricey, but the other two towns are affordable and have a mild four-season climate and lots of pine trees. We live in a desert/agricultural area between Phoenix and Tucson. We made many trips and this place spoke to us and we do like it. But now, with the possibility of a copper mine near by -- which wasn't even an issue when we bought two years ago, we're not so sure we made the right choice. There's a lot to be said for staying put, especially if you want to be close to family!Dr. Kathy McCoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02903015507894951725noreply@blogger.com